Toasting Traditions
Your wedding reception toasts can set the mood for a great party, if they're done right. Here are some tips:
- Best Man Goes First That's one of the perks of being Best Man. Traditionally the toast begins as soon as the wedding party is seated. That's when everyone's attention is focused on the head table. Keep the toast brief, or you'll risk losing people's attention. If you want to tell one story about the groom, that's fine. But don't tell any "inside jokes" about the groom unless everyone in the room is in on the joke. If a guest says, "I don't get it," then that person will feel uncomfortable. And that's not a good thing at a wedding reception.
- Maid or Matron of Honor Goes Second Same advice. If you have a story about the bride, be sure it presents her in a positive light.
- Parents' Toasts You may also wish to have the parents of the bride and/or groom offer a few brief welcoming remarks if they're interested.
- Blessing The clergyman who conducted the wedding ceremony typically offers the blessing if he/she is attending the reception. Otherwise, a member of the wedding party, or a trusted relative or friend may offer the blessing. Some couples skip the blessing entirely. That is your option.
- Tears Don't be afraid that you're going to start crying during your toast or speech. It's a joyful, emotional day. And when a speaker chokes up with honest emotion, it often provides the warmest, most memorable moment of the evening. You're among friends; and people have tremendous respect and affection for someone who has the courage to speak in front of a crowd when it's difficult for them.
- Attendant Speeches Typically, the bridesmaids and groomsmen don't give individual speeches. But if some of them have some prepared remarks, it's best to wait until people are eating, rather than drag on forever while everyone is sitting there hungry, waiting for dinner.
Cheers. La Chaim. Salud.
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